“After
battling between what I know is right and what others think is right I have
come to a decision to tell you what I think is right. To begin it is not my
intention to ruin her life, as she puts it. The matter is, if I was in the same
situation, I would much rather someone tell me then to be ridiculed. I would
like someone to extend me the courtesy of telling me, instead of finding out through
an unknown source, in such an inconvenient manner. You told me that I did not
seem to grasp or rather understand what the situation meant, and I believe I
have a better understanding then you. You and she both say it is the past, but
the past makes us who we are; the past shows people who we are. She tries to
pass the whole situation as being naïve; she is an adult, at her age she should
know that flirting with a man, then sending him explicit images of herself;
images that she has had for a long time; for something as worthless and meaning
less as followers, is morally wrong. It demonstrates that she failed to give
you the respect you so rightfully extended to her. It also conveys the type of
person she is, a person that needs attention at any cost. Of course the cost in
this case, being her relationship. She turned herself in nothing more than a
mere sex object, to be scrutinized by vile men, for acceptance. A woman like
that expresses that she has no self-worth. After she said she would start
fresh, she already is choosing to lie to you. There are more pictures, she not
only flirted with men but through her elicitation of sexual attention with the
chiveoncanada person she promoted sexual attention from kik. She answered
question about topics such as breast size, to which she more than gladly
replied she was a D size. Knowing she was with you she chose to go ahead and
illicit behavior that leads to sexual encounters. This was not only on
Instagram, but also on her email, and Kik, not including the extensive social
networks she has so vulgarly demeaned herself to nothing more than a vile sex
object. She has dehumanized herself to the lowest means, all while calling
herself your girlfriend. After the stalker told her you have a personal liking
for another girl, she continues the relationship, even after she knows you
continue to text the other girl. Clearly, after this I am sure it is not naivety
and I am not only questioning her mental capacitates, but I am quite honestly
considering the idea that she is mentally ill. While knowing you like another
girl, she demeans herself to be with you, she has no self-preservation or
dignity or pride for that matter.
The
gist of this whole situation is that she is not honest; she chooses to hide things,
things the stalker has tried so hard to uncover. Now that she knows that I know
who she really is, she insisted I no longer speak to you. She does not
comprehend the situation she wants to place me in. To start on such an odd
note, a relationship with a sibling of the one I would very much like to
commence a life with, and to no longer talk to them simply because she does not
want me to tell anyone, is by far the most selfish act a human being can commit.
She chooses to put herself before others, which is why this whole situation
began. She chose what she chose, the stalker did not ruin her life, nor did I
try to, she took those pictures, she chose to illicit such sexual behavior on
social networking sites; that was not me nor the stalker who did that; she did
that all on her own. She involved not only me, but the rest of your family in
her unmoral choices. She has made it clear those pictures are old, before she
bought her 4th generation IPhone, she states the images were for
instagram, but you and I both know Instagram is a new site. She later said she
took them for her ex, then later said she does not remember who she sent them
too, which roughly means she sent them to a variety of people. She continues to
go in circles and get more and more tangled in her web of lies.
