Why?

“After battling between what I know is right and what others think is right I have come to a decision to tell you what I think is right. To begin it is not my intention to ruin her life, as she puts it. The matter is, if I was in the same situation, I would much rather someone tell me then to be ridiculed. I would like someone to extend me the courtesy of telling me, instead of finding out through an unknown source, in such an inconvenient manner. You told me that I did not seem to grasp or rather understand what the situation meant, and I believe I have a better understanding then you. You and she both say it is the past, but the past makes us who we are; the past shows people who we are. She tries to pass the whole situation as being naïve; she is an adult, at her age she should know that flirting with a man, then sending him explicit images of herself; images that she has had for a long time; for something as worthless and meaning less as followers, is morally wrong. It demonstrates that she failed to give you the respect you so rightfully extended to her. It also conveys the type of person she is, a person that needs attention at any cost. Of course the cost in this case, being her relationship. She turned herself in nothing more than a mere sex object, to be scrutinized by vile men, for acceptance. A woman like that expresses that she has no self-worth. After she said she would start fresh, she already is choosing to lie to you. There are more pictures, she not only flirted with men but through her elicitation of sexual attention with the chiveoncanada person she promoted sexual attention from kik. She answered question about topics such as breast size, to which she more than gladly replied she was a D size. Knowing she was with you she chose to go ahead and illicit behavior that leads to sexual encounters. This was not only on Instagram, but also on her email, and Kik, not including the extensive social networks she has so vulgarly demeaned herself to nothing more than a vile sex object. She has dehumanized herself to the lowest means, all while calling herself your girlfriend. After the stalker told her you have a personal liking for another girl, she continues the relationship, even after she knows you continue to text the other girl. Clearly, after this I am sure it is not naivety and I am not only questioning her mental capacitates, but I am quite honestly considering the idea that she is mentally ill. While knowing you like another girl, she demeans herself to be with you, she has no self-preservation or dignity or pride for that matter.

The gist of this whole situation is that she is not honest; she chooses to hide things, things the stalker has tried so hard to uncover. Now that she knows that I know who she really is, she insisted I no longer speak to you. She does not comprehend the situation she wants to place me in. To start on such an odd note, a relationship with a sibling of the one I would very much like to commence a life with, and to no longer talk to them simply because she does not want me to tell anyone, is by far the most selfish act a human being can commit. She chooses to put herself before others, which is why this whole situation began. She chose what she chose, the stalker did not ruin her life, nor did I try to, she took those pictures, she chose to illicit such sexual behavior on social networking sites; that was not me nor the stalker who did that; she did that all on her own. She involved not only me, but the rest of your family in her unmoral choices. She has made it clear those pictures are old, before she bought her 4^th generation IPhone, she states the images were for instagram, but you and I both know Instagram is a new site. She later said she took them for her ex, then later said she does not remember who she sent them too, which roughly means she sent them to a variety of people. She continues to go in circles and get more and more tangled in her web of lies.